When I first launched Ecstatic Birth, I wanted to support a woman like I was at the beginning of my journey.
…a woman who wanted to have an incredible birth experience, but didn’t know what that meant or where to begin.
I do attract a lot of these women, but I am always surprised to see so many of you practitioners on my list, in my programs, on my calls.
I’ll be totally honest– I’ve felt very hexed by that. I’m completely upfront and honest in sharing that I have no medical or birth credentials in any way and yet you all still kept coming with enthusiasm to receive what I’ve been sharing. Thank you.
And thank you for sharing with me time and time again how much you want to integrate this with your client work. Thank you for helping me see that this was not included in any of your formal trainings, that this is as new and progressive to you as it is to the expectant mamas I work with.
I’m launching my first ever birth practitioner training this fall.
“Why do most people tend to birth in pain rather than in pleasure?”
This is the question I am asked most often when I share about Ecstatic Birth. There isn’t just one answer to this, but a whole host of answers.
I’ve compiled what I see as the top 10 major factors women birth in pain as opposed to pleasure.
Some of them may surprise you…
10. It is our religious inheritance. Remember when Eve took a bite of that apple in the Garden of Eden? Womankind’s punishment for her sin was to suffer through childbirth. To birth any other way would be blasphemous.
9. It is our cultural inheritance. Look at all the messages around us- How does the media depict birth? How do the moms around you talk about birth? Overwhelmingly our cultural messages reinforce the idea that birth hurts. Women who have had alternate experiences are often ashamed to speak up and if they do, risked being ostracized or outcast, especially if they speak of experiencing pleasure during birth.
8. We are stuck in our heads. In modern society, our bodies are primarily a means to get our heads from place to place. Mental, rational intelligence is valued above all others and yet you can’t think your way through birth. Birth is a primal full body experience. We must be able to let go of rational thought and get fully into our bodies, feeling each sensation, and be guided by its wisdom.
7. We don’t trust our bodies. In this age of cancer there is an underlying current of fear that our bodies will betray us despite our best intentions. Our bodies seem do things we can’t control and don’t understand yet this is all a symptom of our grand disconnect from ourselves. Our bodies are so wise. They hold primal wisdom, generational wisdom, experiential wisdom, all in addition to our mental rational wisdom. If we can learn to listen and honor that it would change everything.
Can you really enjoy childbirth? How is that possible? Is it possible for you?
How do you navigate your birth option to find the ones that are right for you?
How do you harness the power and pleasure in your body to have a safe and easy delivery?
In this FREE 10 day course you will receive:
*Daily lessons, delivered via email to your inbox
*An Introduction to key components of Ecstatic Birth including,
Pleasure as a birth tool
Facing your fears
Developing your inner wisdom
Navigating your big decisions
+ practices you can use to prepare
*Exclusive discounts on The Ecstatic Birth Training Sessions and Private Training Packages
Will you support me with pleasure by sharing some of the things you love about what I do, and what you desire for yourself or your clients?
As a thank you, you are the very first to be invited to my 10 day Ecstatic Birth email training. Totally free, consider it a Mother’s Day present from me to you.
Here is the link to register for the course.. and give me some love.
Truth is, I’m gifting you the class either way. All the feedback fields are optional, so share as much or as little as you are inspired.
The course launches on my 40th birthday May 18th, as I can think of no better way of celebrating where I have been and where I am going.
Consistently, the biggest piece of advice I give women interested in Ecstatic Birth is to connect more deeply to their bodies and their sensuality.. to learn to feeeeeeel more pleasure.. to learn how to tap into that sensual energy at will.
This not only makes your physical experience of birth better, but it makes life in and out of the bedroom way better too.
There was a time long ago when I felt really whiney about my orgasms and then I met Saida Désilets who encouraged me to disconnect from any expectations and focus instead on my connection with myself.
Thus began an eye opening, mind blowing journey into what is possible.